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Bill Murray Gave This Spontaneous Speech At A Stranger's Bachelor Party
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Jen Carlson
Published May 27, 2014
Modified May 27, 2014
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The latest stop on Bill Murray's Spontaneous Lifetime Tour was at a bachelor party in Charleston, South Carolina over the weekend, where he dispensed some advice on love and marriage to the groom's single buddies.
"Listen here, I'm gonna give you all advice, cause it's too late for this one... here's what I recommend to you. If you have someone that you think is The One, don't just sort of think in your ordinary mind, 'Okay let's make a date, let's plan this and make a party and get married.' Take that person and travel around the world. Buy a plane ticket for the two of you to travel all around the world. And go to places that are hard to go to and hard to get out of, and if when you come back to JFK, when you land in JFK and you're still in love with that person, get married at the airport."
Deadspin has video of the moment, which almost didn't happen according to their tipster: "At one point during dinner at a steakhouse, one guy goes to the bathroom downstairs and sees Bill Murray sitting with some people... and asked if he'd come up and say a few words. [He] got a 'No thanks.' Two minutes later, Bill fucking Murray walks into the room and gives this speech."
For more advice from Bill Murray on how to live life, check out his hour long interview with Charlie Rose. Or try to run in to him yourself... he could be in Brooklyn again:
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Jen Carlson is a former WNYC and Gothamist editor.
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